🌟 How
to Stop Keeping Score and Start Healing 🌟
Have you ever found yourself silently tallying the hurts,
the sacrifices, and the imbalances in your relationship?
👉 “I
apologized last time, so it’s your turn.”
👉 “I
give more than you do.”
👉 “You
hurt me once, so I’ll never forget it.”
At first, it feels like protection. It feels like a way of
making sure you don’t get taken advantage of. But here’s the hidden truth:
keeping score is slowly poisoning your love.
Instead of being teammates, you start acting like
opponents. Every mistake gets recorded, every effort weighed, every act of love
turned into a transaction. Love stops flowing freely, and resentment takes its
place.
💔 The
danger of keeping score is this:
You stop seeing your partner for who they are today—you
only see the past mistakes.
You turn connection into competition.
You block the healing and intimacy that your heart truly
longs for.
But here’s the good news: you can break this cycle. Healing
doesn’t come from holding on tighter to your scorecard—it comes from putting it
down.
✨
Imagine what would happen if instead of asking, “Who gave more?” you asked:
What do we need right now to feel safe together?
How can we build trust instead of tearing it down?
What does love look like when we both choose healing over
winning?
When you choose partnership over punishment, something magical happens:
🌹
Forgiveness feels possible.
🌹 Trust
starts to grow again.
🌹 Love
feels lighter, freer, and more real.
👉 And
here’s the secret—healing doesn’t mean pretending the hurt never happened. It
means learning how to talk about it, repair it, and rebuild stronger than
before. That’s where I come in.
💞 As a
relationship coach, I help couples break free from scorekeeping, release
resentment, and find their way back to a love that feels safe, supportive, and
alive again.
If you’re tired of keeping track of who did what, and ready
to start creating a relationship that truly heals both of you, let’s talk.
Because love isn’t about who’s winning. It’s about winning
together. 🌟
Kali Gahiga | Life Coach for Couples 💞
🔗
www.coachkali.online
📞
+250788200583
📧
info@coachkali.online
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