🎯 Too
Close, Too Lost: How to Reclaim Yourself Without Abandoning the Relationship 💞
Have you ever felt like the “you” in your relationship has
quietly disappeared?
It starts innocently—spending all your free time together,
sharing every decision, merging routines. At first, it feels safe… even
romantic.
But slowly, your dreams, passions, and personal identity
fade into the background.
Here’s the truth: closeness is beautiful, but losing
yourself isn’t love—it’s self-erasure.
When you vanish, the relationship suffers too. Why? Because
a healthy couple is made of two whole individuals who choose each other every
day, not two half-versions clinging to survive.
3 Steps to Reclaim Yourself (Without Walking Away):
1️⃣
Redefine “Me Time” as Non-Negotiable – Schedule moments to do things only for
you—hobbies, friends, or even solo reflection.
2️⃣
Revisit Your Dreams – Write down goals that are yours alone. Share them with
your partner so they can cheer you on.
3️⃣ Set
Emotional Boundaries – You can be connected without being enmeshed. Saying “I
need space” doesn’t mean “I love you less”—it means “I want to keep loving you
as me.”
💡 When
you find yourself again, you bring more energy, creativity, and joy into your
relationship. It’s not a threat—it’s the best gift you can give both of you.
✨ Kali Gahiga
Life Coach on Couple Relationships
🔗
www.coachkali.online
📞
+250788200583
📧
info@coachkali.online
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