🎯 What Your Fights Are Really Trying to Tell You 💥💞

🎯 What Your Fights Are Really Trying to Tell You 💥💞

🚫 It’s not about the dishes.

🚫 It’s not about being “late again.”

🚫 It’s not even about the way they looked at their phone while you were talking.

💡 Fights in a relationship are rarely about what they seem to be about.

They’re messengers in disguise. 📩

💔 Behind every fight, there’s an unmet need, a buried fear, or a silent cry for connection.

🧠 Here’s what fights might REALLY be saying:

🔹 “I don’t feel seen.”

🔹 “I’m scared you’ll leave.”

🔹 “I’m overwhelmed and I need support.”

🔹 “I miss the closeness we once had.”

🔹 “I’m afraid I’m not enough for you.”

But instead of speaking from vulnerability, we speak from anger.

Instead of sharing our needs, we throw accusations.

Instead of leaning in, we pull away. 😔

🌱 Every argument is a door.

You can slam it shut... or open it to deeper understanding.

You can stay stuck in the pattern... or choose to grow through it — together. 💞

✨ Imagine what would happen if you both learned to hear what’s beneath the words.

✨ Imagine turning conflict into connection — not by avoiding fights, but by understanding them.

🙋‍♀️ As a relationship coach, I help couples decode the real message behind their fights —

so they can stop battling and start building. 🛠️❤️

📥 Ready to stop fighting the wrong way and start healing the right way?

DM me or comment “READY” and I’ll reach out with how I can help.

💬 Because your love deserves better than the same argument on repeat.

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🖊️ Kali Gahiga

🎓 Life Coach on Couple Relationships

🔗 www.coachkali.online

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